“Staying involved with each other. Some relationships get stuck in peaceful coexistence, but without truly relating to each other and working together. While it may seem stable on the surface, lack of involvement and communication increases distance.”
In a healthy relationship, you each have your own interests and hobbies. However, sometimes it’s a good idea to try to take interest in what your partner is interested in. Does your boyfriend love to watch Gossip Girl? Join him for an episode. Does your girlfriend love to play piano? Ask her to play for you. Trying to be involved will not only make your partner happy, but it may help you find a new interest of your own.